The Love for Tomboys is Not Good

Tomboys.

Source: Ryuko from "Kill la Kill"

Tomboys...

Source: Revy from "Black Lagoon"

I NEED A TOMBOY GF!!!

This is a funny thing that started being hailed over the internet culture not very long ago. Sure, a tomboy GF is top tier material, but from what I can tell, this is a symptom of a problem. A problem many people are aware of but haven’t gotten the dots connected.

You may be aware of the feminization of our culture. The shame of being a boy, toxic masculinity and the push for equality and feminism. The politics of our time seem to be in favor of pushing the modern feminist agenda. I recently read The Rational Male by Tomassi and it put a spotlight on what made me not "different from other guys" but a typical beta male. Appealing to emotion, treating her like a princess, putting it all on the table to leave no secrets. What Tomassi said was that this is not what women want. As much as what we hear is for a typical woman to want a nice guy who treats her nice, rolling out the red carpet and that jargon, these are not the qualities that makes a prince but rather a servant, or in other terms more widely used in my parts of the internet , a beta orbiter, a simp. In women’s nature on a subconscious level, they want the confident, mysterious man who has an edge to them and isn't bound to the lady, it’s the other way around. Vampires, werewolves, millionaire hotshots. And yet it seems a lot of men have been taught that women don’t really want that. Too violent, unpredictable, unstable. And yet, that is simply not true. It’s not about the bad boys being bad that makes them attractive. Rather, the qualities that come with being a bad boy are so attractive. It’s what makes them alpha, the leader and the one a girl wants.

But a lot of men weren’t taught that. The current culture taught us the opposite and now here we are. While women claim to want the nice guy, their nature doesn’t align with that. It hasn’t changed. Men on the other hand, took it to heart. It has ingrained in many of us, including myself. And despite all the times we may have gotten them gifts, listened to their griefs, spent quality time together that would make any passerby believe we are one, we weren’t. We were, to them, another girlfriend.

But here comes the discovery and a type of girl who isn’t like that. They have hobbies similar to ours, are direct and don't say one thing and mean another, are active, strive for competition, and what better? They can lead the relationship. The tomboy comes into the picture. Essentially, the roles have been reversed. Men have become molded to become more feminine while women have not really. Women remained largely the same, except more power, more control under them. The nature residing in their subconscious hasn’t. Many men have failed to appeal to the typical woman for affection. Their approach was not at all appealing. Their behavior was more fitting for men but that would be gay. So what wouldn’t be so homosexual? A trap? No, that is still gay. Women with masculine tendencies were the answer. The tomboy was the perfect match and the boys of the internet have found their dream girl. No more mind games, no more "Let’s just be friends." No more broken hearts because an alpha Chad went under her panties after a single meeting No more boring shit like makeup and chick flicks to go through just to lose the v-card. It’s not just a gamer girl or a female to watch action movies with. It’s not just someone who encourages you to play sports or go to the gym and grow as a person. It’s not just having a lover that can be called a best friend you can easily relate to. It’s someone who also exhibits traits of an alpha for a poor boy who has grown to become a beta a typical woman would love having as a friend but not as a lover can finally find comfort in. A tomboy is different. A boyfriend with tits? Yes. A tomboy did not carry the usual baggage that is now expected from a typical female. The internet has discovered it and the reason for its recent interest is the result of an unfixed and ongoing problem. And funny enough, I don’t think enough people are aware of the root cause. People, men especially, should realize that a tomboy GF (as awesome as it might be) will not find them attractive for the same reasons as the regular girls who didn’t before. Why would anyone want to settle for a beta?

I highly recommend reading The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.